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The whole truth is that ambition and drive are characteristics that don't often lead to attraction. I don't just say that since I'm a girl. Those same qualities in a man might mean he's prone to workaholism or maintaining relationships at a safe distance. Not exactly sexy.
I don't think that's accurate, but I could be wrong. Would you mind linking to 3 OkCupid profiles of women who wish they could get approached, but are getting next to no attention because they're not so sexy?
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The data could also be used to keep users honest when they're making their account. "I think it would be interesting if OkCupid called you out as you're filling out your profile," said Jen Golbeck, a researcher who studies the intersection of social networking and information at the University of Maryland. "It could say something like, 'I analysed your likes and it looks like maybe you are a smoker. Are you sure you want to choose that answer? '" A more jaded dating program Local Slutz could instead alert the person viewing the profile that their match might be lying.
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A series of studies spearheaded by our co-author Paul Eastwick has indicated that individuals lack insight regarding which characteristics in a potential partner will inspire or undermine their attraction to him or her (see here, here, and here ). As such, singles believe they're making sensible decisions about who's compatible with them when they're browsing profiles, but they can't get an accurate sense of the romantic compatibility till they've met the individual face-to-face (or possibly via webcam; the jury remains out on richer forms of computer-mediated communication). Consequently, it's unlikely that singles will make better choices if they browse profiles for 20 hours rather than 20 minutes.
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Many dating apps provide a page of advice for users to protect themselves. But here's the thing: A page simply suggesting that consumers meet in a public space makes me question whether the technology wizards and developers behind these apps are truly taking the most action to better protect women and all users. One needn't look further than their blocking capabilities.
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'Had a date last night -- great banter. He's a Christian, creative. He was actually three inches shorter than he said on his profile -- so he's not 5'9 but a whopping 5'6. I could manage the vertically challenged thing, but there was no spark. And you? ' shares my friend from the UK, through WhatsApp.
Today, I learned something I did not know about in the online dating scene: "Tindstagramming. " According to New York Magazine, Tindstagramming is "he act of sneaking into someone's Instagram DMs after failing to match with them on Tinder. " As the report lays out, many guys and gals link their Instagram handles to their dating profiles in Tinder or Hinge. This allows some industrious, would-be sleuths to take down the potential match's handle while swiping and then DM her after the cold truth that she's just not that into you settles in.
Even if relationship companies aren't using our data to damage our reputations, they might be using it to make money. "It's sketchy to think what sort of advice they could give advertisers, particularly if it's information we don't even know about ourselves. I don't smoke but maybe if I swipe on a lot of guys who like cigarettes in my pictures, it shows I think cigarettes make you look cool. " An advertiser could learn what products we find subconsciously sexy--literally--and show us targeted advertisements.
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