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Tinder, a mobile dating app, has a reputation for easing hook-ups based primarily on appearance. This is probably because the app gives users very little information besides geographical proximity, name, age and -- of course -- photographs. The fact that there's little to go on when deciding whether or not to pursue another consumer is where evolutionary psychology comes in.
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That's not a question, but I'll forgive you. Keep in mind thatyou're just "online" to get a small portion of your interaction with someone -- after a few messages, you're usually out on a date, interacting in meat space.
Examples? There was a few dancing to a band. I went up to the guy and asked about the band (had no intention of hitting anyone). The woman (smoking hot) began talking to me and IMMEDIATELY said "oh by the way, we are just work colleagues" and was all over me the rest of the night. I mean, that's a bit disrespectful to the guy, to just say that (if he was interested). However, I've never had a sexy woman dump this kind of obvious IOI like that immediately. Normally it's the opposite (get out Personal Ads Craigslist Gerogery New South Wales the "I have a boyfriend" immediately ).
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Emotionally unavailable partners can now reap the benefits of relationships without calling anyone their boyfriend or girlfriend; they can now place many partners into "friends with benefits" type situations.For individuals who want something casual and carefree, this can be empowering and exciting. For those people who are looking for a longer-term dedication, however, they may need to sort through many covert manipulators before finding someone who's compatible with their needs and desires.
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