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If what I learned in Anthropology 101 back in the University of Alberta is Ernestina Queensland Local Outcall Escorts true, then guys would like this program more than women. I don't think such an assertion is sexist as long as it's understood it is not a sweeping assertion: there are exceptions for either sex.
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Honestly? I've completed that/said that before. Want some insight? It's a cop out. It's our way of beating rejection (that he didn't really reject me because I wasn't looking for a relationship) and not feeling like we're overly eager for a relationship. It's hard to turn down an opportunity for a buddy vs. turning down a potential mate. It's also the way we don't feel desperate.
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